Your Ni Dom

The Heritability Factor

In this reflection I process traits l inherited from my parents and consider their desirability. Supporting themes: Rational and irrational behavior; City and rural living; Pathologies and Therapy; Communication and the 7-38-55 rule; Conventional and non-conventional living: Abuse and Intergenerational trauma. This reflection was influenced in part by 1. Kenneth Bordens & Irwin Horowitz ("Social Psychology"); and 2. Alexis Kingsley (YouTube: "Introverted Intuition vs. Introverted Sensing"). Typology: Ni, Si, Te; Fi; Social-Eight

Growth and Growing

This reflection is about growth and growing. I use a diamond as a four-point framework (for the week) to show that I've grown or that I'm still growing. Related themes: The people tax of an introvert; Being loved but not liked; Relating to "My Person;" Being unlocalized: Responding to complaints; Teaching, learning and leadership; Ground Zero; Loving vs being fulfilled; Emotional maturity and emotional immaturity; Care work as an entitlement or an exchange. Typology: Enneagram INTJ8; Type 7, 8, 9 and 1

The Coin the Tax and the Pinch

Complex and Complicated

In this reflection I contend with serenity and fulfillment. as complex and complicated conditions for me as an INTJ8. Note: There was a lot of house keeping that related to the complicity and complication. However, the formal part of the reflection begins around Minute 40.

Stress

In this reflection I use MBTI and the Enneagram to show my relationship to stress (particularly as relating to unhealthy coping strategies).

Questioning Ground Zero

In this reflection I question the caliber of my "ground zero" and what I would need in order to upgrade it. Supporting themes: Business possibilities and YourNiDom podcast; Masterminding and strategizing; Analysis paralysis and perseverating; Dating people similar to the self and conditions of compatibility; Turnaround leadership vs administrative leadership; Teaching and learning; Being creative and solo- ish. Typology: The INTJ Mastermind; Fi Drama

Labor and Belonging

In this reflection I contend with belonging when it feels like labor. Supporting themes: Group membership, Belonging friendship, family or work; Survival instincts. Typology: Enneagram instincts (social. self- Preservation and sexual); INTJ Te/Fi deciding; Type Eight.

Unaccessed

In this reflection I talk about emotions that are unaccessed or inaccessible. Supporting themes: Friendship; Emotional intelligence/ emotional wellness; Triggered parents; First born (rights and responsibilities?). IMPORTANT NOTE: This reflection abruptly ends. Go to YouTube for the closing. Typology: INTJ childhood; Eights and vulnerability.

The Truth Shall Set You Free

In this reflection I reconsider truth and authenticity. Supporting themes: My tribute to my person at her funeral; Two sides of empowerment (people and systems); Spiritual callings; Relationship conflicts associated with healing. This reflection was inspired in part by a follower who gently challenged me on being authentic. Typology: Type 8 and INTJness.

The Pareto Rule

In this reflection I consider the Pareto Principle which is a rule that says 80% of outputs is controlled by 20% of inputs. Supporting themes: Sibling dynamics; relocation; Lifestyle design/ design living; Solo living; Impostered self vs authentic self; Practicing authenticity; Therapy; Confronting transphobia; Living in a new world after someone dies. This reflection was influenced in part by The Investopedia Team ("What Is the Pareto Principle—aka the Pareto Rule or 80/20 Rule?). Typology: Sensing versus intuition