Your Ni Dom

In this reflection I process the temptation of settling for "good enough." To illustrate this point, I use three Biblical references (Gilead, Sarah and Joseph) and one literary reference (Oz). Typology: INTJ8

I start this reflection with an impression (Sarah, Joseph and Oz) but with several rabbit holes and limited time, I never got to it. Instead, I talked about intense emotions as data points for learning. Supporting themes: The invisibles; Organizational psychology; Training and team meetings; Talents, dignity and subordination; Racial delineation of masculine presenting lesbians; Social science. Topology: INTJ8; Instinctual Stack; Sexual subtype; Self preservation subtype.

In this reflection I do cognitive cleansing in order to get to deeper thinking. Supporting themes: Data analysis; Being a Type 8 orphan; Divergent and convergent thinking; Being on a team; Being a protector; Being respectful. Typology: INTJ8

Welcome back! This is the start of Season 13 (Year 7). In this reflection I use a cell phone, a cell phone tower, and a "fake cell phone tower" to explain three domains of the human experience (cognition, emotions and the somatic nervous system). Typology: INTJ8

In this reflection, I close out Season 12 (Year 6) with several discoveries about my internal operating system as an INTJ8. Supporting themes: Candace Owens; Teaching; Leadership; Political trauma of being low income and racialized; Motivation; Immediate feedback vs indirect feedback; Conflict. Special note: I'm taking the rest of July to go silent and regroup. Will see you in August (2026). Thanks for continuing to support me as "I think, grow and have impact in the world!" 🥰 Typology: Te; Sensors; Intuitives; Enneagram 8; and INTJ.

In this reflection I zoom from my most recent (and persistent) point of friction to discover some critical, macro Lessons to be respected. Supporting themes: Recognizing and accepting patterns; INTJ blind spots (concerning the social world); Critical Race Feminism; Friendship conflict across space and time. This reflection was inspired in part by Suryia Nayak (" Race, Gender and the Activism of Black Feminist Theory"). Trigger warning: I briefly discussed the tragic loss of life that occurred over the holiday weekend (#NolanWells). I'm sending my deepest condolences to his family and friends. Typology: INTJ

In this reflection I try to locate when/ how enmeshment started with a sibling. Supporting themes: Dating; Polyamory; Possession; Expected loyalty/ solidarity; Friendships; Communication; Abuse; Emotional dysregulation: The advanced skill of teaching. Topology: Ni domness; Enneagram Type 8; INTJ

In this reflection I talk about the danger of familial enmeshment as relating to selfhood. Topology: INTJ8

In this reflection I process friction around historical- mass jurisdiction and locally-confined jurisdiction. Supporting themes: Masterminding; Systems Theory; Relational trust; Historical oppression; Miseducation of low income Black children; Behavior as communication. Special Note: This reflection is "Type" heavy. Topology: INTJ: Enneagram Type 8; Dominant Ni vs Inferior Ni; Fe; Fi; ESFP; ESFJ; ISFJ; ISFP; Enneagram 8 mistypes (1, 3 and 6). Enneagram pathways.

In this reflection I explore two friction points related to confidence: with the self and with others. Supporting themes: Communication and group dynamics; Highly sensitive people and sensitivity; Tonality and subtle energy shifts as data points; Being a mastermind; Strategizing and problem solving; Giftedness and polymathy; Production equity (or not); Silence as a weaponized vacuum; Writing and typewriters. Topology: INTJ8; Sensors