Your Ni Dom

Physiological Arousal (Triggering)

In this reflection I talk about two events that caused a triggering that a text calls "physiological arousal." Supporting themes : Nuanced and varied grief; Stress and Se coping; Intuition and tasks; Language and liberty; Executive leadership; Love restricted to words; TeFi dynamic; Power as related to race, gender, cognitive functions and maternal energy; Trauma wounds. Note 1: This reflection was influenced in part by Kenneth Bordens & Irwin Horowitz ("Social Psychology"). Also, Just Call Me Jon was referenced. Note 2: This is a type- heavy discussion (there is a lot of MBTI jargon). Note 3: I swear a lot in this reflection. Do not listen around children. Typology; Ni; Te; Fi; Se; Fe; Enneagram Social 8.

The Heritability Factor

In this reflection I process traits l inherited from my parents and consider their desirability. Supporting themes: Rational and irrational behavior; City and rural living; Pathologies and Therapy; Communication and the 7-38-55 rule; Conventional and non-conventional living: Abuse and Intergenerational trauma. This reflection was influenced in part by 1. Kenneth Bordens & Irwin Horowitz ("Social Psychology"); and 2. Alexis Kingsley (YouTube: "Introverted Intuition vs. Introverted Sensing"). Typology: Ni, Si, Te; Fi; Social-Eight

Growth and Growing

This reflection is about growth and growing. I use a diamond as a four-point framework (for the week) to show that I've grown or that I'm still growing. Related themes: The people tax of an introvert; Being loved but not liked; Relating to "My Person;" Being unlocalized: Responding to complaints; Teaching, learning and leadership; Ground Zero; Loving vs being fulfilled; Emotional maturity and emotional immaturity; Care work as an entitlement or an exchange. Typology: Enneagram INTJ8; Type 7, 8, 9 and 1

The Coin the Tax and the Pinch

Complex and Complicated

In this reflection I contend with serenity and fulfillment. as complex and complicated conditions for me as an INTJ8. Note: There was a lot of house keeping that related to the complicity and complication. However, the formal part of the reflection begins around Minute 40.

Stress

In this reflection I use MBTI and the Enneagram to show my relationship to stress (particularly as relating to unhealthy coping strategies).

Questioning Ground Zero

In this reflection I question the caliber of my "ground zero" and what I would need in order to upgrade it. Supporting themes: Business possibilities and YourNiDom podcast; Masterminding and strategizing; Analysis paralysis and perseverating; Dating people similar to the self and conditions of compatibility; Turnaround leadership vs administrative leadership; Teaching and learning; Being creative and solo- ish. Typology: The INTJ Mastermind; Fi Drama

Labor and Belonging

In this reflection I contend with belonging when it feels like labor. Supporting themes: Group membership, Belonging friendship, family or work; Survival instincts. Typology: Enneagram instincts (social. self- Preservation and sexual); INTJ Te/Fi deciding; Type Eight.

Unaccessed

In this reflection I talk about emotions that are unaccessed or inaccessible. Supporting themes: Friendship; Emotional intelligence/ emotional wellness; Triggered parents; First born (rights and responsibilities?). IMPORTANT NOTE: This reflection abruptly ends. Go to YouTube for the closing. Typology: INTJ childhood; Eights and vulnerability.

The Truth Shall Set You Free

In this reflection I reconsider truth and authenticity. Supporting themes: My tribute to my person at her funeral; Two sides of empowerment (people and systems); Spiritual callings; Relationship conflicts associated with healing. This reflection was inspired in part by a follower who gently challenged me on being authentic. Typology: Type 8 and INTJness.