Your Ni Dom

Conflict Between Work and Home

In this reflecting I share my personal struggle with dating and friendship as relating to feminism, entrepreneurship, and physical play. The core conflict deals with location and deciding to privilege my work or my heart.

Dealing with Bullying Behaviors

In this reflection I talk about different ways of recognizing and dealing with bullying behavior. I come from a personal perspective and a professional one. In this reflection, I also consider different reactions to bullies based on Enneagram Type 8 and Enneagram Type 5.

Social Justice and Masterminding Challenges

In this reflection I talk more about masterminding and challenges related to volunteerism, social justice, and personal development. Also in this reflection is a conversation on (dis)comfort with my two cognitive pairings: NiSe and TeFi.

Impressions, Personal Growth, Masterminding and Personality Theory

Political Tribes and Type Maturity

Te in the Middle

This reflection starts and end with a conversation about how INTJs can or cannot connect to FPs (people with Fi in the top of their stack); however, in the middle I talk about a number of (non)related topics: 1) learning theory and deep learning; 2) NT observation versus action; and 3) TeFi dynamics. In all, it is a reflection that explores Te as middle function between Ni and Fi.

The INTJ and the Instinctual Stack

In this reflection, I talk about my relationship to self preservation (and the instinctual stack) as an Enneagram 8 and an INTJ. This is a reflection that is more about me figuring it out than it is about me reporting it out. I end with an argument that personality is not seasonal. I posit that it is trans-seasonal and requires data from multiple time periods to understand.

When Grief is Trapped in the Body

TRIGGER WARNING: In this reflection I talk about murder, death and dying and how I process (or not process) emotions around death as an INTJ. In this reflection, I also try to isolate each cognitive function of my stack to help me understand why I react the way I do when someone I know passes away.

Loving and Respecting My Tertiary Fi

TeFi Dynamics as an Introvert

In this reflection I talk both about being strong Te as an introvert and about Fi challenges when my Te is parked.