Your Ni Dom

I am a Maximizer

I this reflection I contend with a single pursuit. Supporting themes: Organizing and regulating the outer world; Self Preservation; Masterminding; Taking risks and calibrating; LinkedIn and a professional identity; Family and staying connected (or not); (Re) locating. This reflection was influenced in part by Isabel Briggs Meyers with Peter B. Meyers ("Gifts Differing"); Dr. Charles Chaffin ("Choice Overload: I Can't Decide"); and Personality Hacker (I referenced them frequently in this reflection). Typology: Te vs Ti, INTJ and Self Preservation- Eight

Something Was Wrong

In this reflection I respond to a podcast series,  "Something Was Wrong," about a woman in a psychologically abusive relationship. In it, I confront my own personal experiences with romance and abuse and the ways I agree AND disagree with the messages in that series. 

 

Supporting themes: Psychological abuse; Physical abuse; Emotional abuse; Feminism, Narcissism  Religion, Family, Culture, Race and intersectionality; Relationship escalator. 

 

Typology: Ni and Type 8

Questioning the Physical

In this reflection I process the existence of the physical as relating to life and death. Supporting themes: Plants; My Person; Quantum Physics; Dying; Pain; Heaven and an after life; Grief; Abraham Maslow and self actualization; Behaviors; Moods and motivation; MBTI and theoretical soundness. Typology: Ni

Realizing and Fostering

In this reflection I process my journey of realizing and fostering my inner ideal. Supporting themes: Cognitive functions; Bar talk; Entrepreneurship and Employment; Freedom and Autonomy. This reflection was influenced in part by Isabel Briggs Meyers with Peter B. Meyers ("Gifts Differing "). Typology: Fi, INTJ8

Influence and Ostracizing

In this reflection I try to explore "connected tissue" as a theme by way of two, social-psychological concepts: social influence (informational/ normative) and social ostracizing. Supporting themes: Family, friends and lovers; Presidential politics and indictments; Black liberation and black diversity; Exclusionary behaviors; Prosecutors and judges; Felons and guns; Marketing and special interest groups; Sisterhood. This reflection was influenced in part by Kenneth Bordens & Irwin Horowitz ("Social Psychology"). Typology: Ni, Te, Fe, Fi

Multiples

In this reflection I use new information to loop back and reinforce old convictions. "Multiples" was a reoccurring theme throughout. Supporting themes: The 8- hour work day; Goal setting; Intimidation: Business; Writing and messaging; Group challenges; Aggression. Typology: INTJ; ESFJ; ENFP; FeTi; TeFi; Enneagram 8 and 6.

Traveling Solo as a Change Agent

In this reflection I confront some unconscious realities about my solo orientation within a capitalistic, monogamous world. Supporting themes: Classism, racism and sexism; Social change agentry and education; Entrepreneurship; Employment; Dating and Dating Agendas; Self care, cleaning and structural maps. Typology: INTJ8

Rooftop Friends

In this reflection I talk about friendship utility and my ideal social life. Typology: INTJ8; Enneagram 2, 3 and 4.

Friends and Low Places

In this reflection I talk about being in low frequency, the challenges of getting to higher frequencies and the friends along the way. Supporting themes: Solo living; Invisible trauma; Parenting; Psychological umbilical cord; and Making remarkable friends. Note: This reflection was influenced in part By Peter McGraw from the Solo Podcast ("Making Remarkable Friends"); and Garth Brooks ("Friends in Low Spaces."). Typology: Sexual and Self-presentation subtypes.

Physiological Arousal (Triggering)

In this reflection I talk about two events that caused a triggering that a text calls "physiological arousal." Supporting themes : Nuanced and varied grief; Stress and Se coping; Intuition and tasks; Language and liberty; Executive leadership; Love restricted to words; TeFi dynamic; Power as related to race, gender, cognitive functions and maternal energy; Trauma wounds. Note 1: This reflection was influenced in part by Kenneth Bordens & Irwin Horowitz ("Social Psychology"). Also, Just Call Me Jon was referenced. Note 2: This is a type- heavy discussion (there is a lot of MBTI jargon). Note 3: I swear a lot in this reflection. Do not listen around children. Typology; Ni; Te; Fi; Se; Fe; Enneagram Social 8.