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This is a podcast about personality theory and personal development. Primarily using MBTI, the host, an INTJ, talks about living out loud as an introverted intuitive-- a function that only INTJs and INFJs lead with (making up only 4% of the population). To learn more, visit: https://yournidom.wordpress.com/podcast/
This is a podcast about personality theory and personal development. Primarily using MBTI, the host, an INTJ, talks about living out loud as an introverted intuitive-- a function that only INTJs and INFJs lead with (making up only 4% of the population). To learn more, visit: https://yournidom.wordpress.com/podcast/
Episodes

Sunday Oct 05, 2025
The Big Five and Wellness
Sunday Oct 05, 2025
Sunday Oct 05, 2025
In this reflection, I explore wellness as relating to neuroticism (in how the Big Five treats neuroticism).

Sunday Sep 28, 2025
High and Low Frequency
Sunday Sep 28, 2025
Sunday Sep 28, 2025
In this reflection I consider a low-frequency event from a month ago and consider it within my discovery of self worth. Supporting themes: Structural harm; College dorms; Pro- Black politics; Black belongingness; Bullying as play and the psychology of passive aggressive behaviors; Emotions. Special note: This is a re- recording of a failed episode I did a month ago. Typology: INTJ; Enneagram eight regression to the five.

Sunday Sep 21, 2025
Conflict as an Ni Dom
Sunday Sep 21, 2025
Sunday Sep 21, 2025
In this reflection I work through a conflict that occurred while on travels.
Typology: INTJ, Enneagram 8

Sunday Sep 14, 2025

Sunday Sep 07, 2025
Destruction vs Expansion
Sunday Sep 07, 2025
Sunday Sep 07, 2025
In this reflection I consider my destructive past as related to my creative future.
Supporting themes: Thermodynamics; Life and death; Writing; Emotional maturity; Spiritual calling; Public and private treatments; Beyoncé as a role model of the intense Enneagram 8; Religion as a trap; Hell as a construct; Reconciling the grief I have with my person's death (just a little).
Special note 1: I surprisingly do a lot of crying (not all related to sadness).
Special note 2: I have posted links and additional reflections related to this reflection on my website: yournidom.WordPress.com.
Typology: Enneagram 8; INTJ; Ni; Fi.

Sunday Aug 31, 2025
It’s Happening
Sunday Aug 31, 2025
Sunday Aug 31, 2025
In this reflection I process a season of growth regarding the integrated, synthesized me. Supporting themes: Beyonce as a Type 8 (not a Type 3); Strength, dominance, vulnerability and tears; AI technologies; Jeremiah as a weeping prophet; Grand masterminding and ground zero. Note: This reflection was inspired in part by Michael Scott ("The Office"). Typology: INTJ8; NiFi; TeSe; Enneagram Type 1, 5 and 9.

Sunday Aug 24, 2025
Push in and Push Out
Sunday Aug 24, 2025
Sunday Aug 24, 2025
This reflection is the closing (and ultimate point) of "The Public and the Private" reflection released last week. I confront when I am assertive and when I withdraw. There is a strong Enneagram focus throughout the discussion. Note: The sound quality is lower (there was background noise).

Sunday Aug 17, 2025
The Private and the Public
Sunday Aug 17, 2025
Sunday Aug 17, 2025
In this reflection, I talk about authenticity juxtaposed within two different spheres: Public vs Private.
Note: There is roughly a five minute pause around Minute 55. I was thinking and thought I hit the pause button. Clearly, I did not. Oops.
Typology: Enneagram clusters around interpersonal styles (being assertive, being withdrawn and being dutiful); Considering an INTJ5 as mistyping; INTJ8 and Te.

Monday Aug 11, 2025
Being a Gifted INTJ8
Monday Aug 11, 2025
Monday Aug 11, 2025
In this reflection I consider the ways Giftedness, INTJness and Type 8-ness overlap. Supporting themes: Perceptivity; Divergency; Entelechy; Sensitivity; Excitability; Power and the matrix; Taking action; Autism; Dysregulation; Education; Social Institutions and the socialization process; Banking and customer service; Christianity and proselytizing;. This reflection was influenced in part by the Bible (John 1:1-3); and Howard Gardner ("Multiple Intelligence"). Typology: Cognitive functions of the INTJ; Core values of Enneagram Type 8.

Sunday Aug 03, 2025
Learning and Change
Sunday Aug 03, 2025
Sunday Aug 03, 2025
In this reflection I consider this podcast and my learning around authenticity and vulnerability. I also discuss my plans for behavioral change.
Supporting themes: Family time; Anger; Trauma and the disconnected self; Digital presentations; Healthy vulnerability vs unhealthy vulnerability.
Note 1: This episode marks the start to Season 11.
Note 2: This reflection was influenced in part by Jeanne Ormrod ("Human Learning").
Note 3: I briefly mentioned INTJ-Jon (Just Call Me Jon from YouTube).
Typology: INTJ and Type 8 Relatedness; Type 5 Mistyping for INTJs; Big brother Te and Little Sister Fi.
