Your Ni Dom

Dominance

In this reflection I try to come to terms with being a soft-dominant person. The first 20 minutes however is about dating, sex and attraction. Typology: Social-8; Te and Ti and INTJ8 versus INTJ5.

Elevation

In this reflection I talk about being in a good place and how this project has helped me do some deep, painful and important work.

The Un-unified Self

In this reflection I consider different components of the self and the ways those components do not function as one system. Related themes: Instinct; Control; Vocabulary and appearing smart; and The ways the Enneagram and Meyers Briggs personality systems differ. Typology: Extroverted feeling; Social Interaction; and Instinctual subtypes.

Polyamory

In this reflection I consider the non- sexual benefits of a polyamorous lifestyle. Inspired by: Not Your Therapist (Polyamory Story Hour). Additional themes: A rich socio-emotional life based on three different relationships (familial, romantic and platonic); childfree and childless; emotional intelligence, communication and other high level skills; and the mistreatment/ misalignment of platonic relationships. Typology: Perceives and Judgers.

Doing Good

In this reflection I consider extraverted thinking from both the dominant (hero) position and the auxiliary (parent) position. This reflection was inspired by INFJinx (ENTJ vs INTJ). Typology: Ni; Te; Ne; Ti; Fe.

Efficiency vs. Effectiveness

In this reflection I wrestle with effectiveness and efficiency as being complimentary or competing concepts. Inspired by: YouTube content generator: Love Who ("Things you HATE when you're an INTJ"). Additional themes: Curriculum; Standards; Students; Positional Authority; Goals and Outcomes; Leadership; and Expertise. Typology: Ni; Te; Fi; Ti; and Si.

Irritation

Most of this reflection is about me working through a situation in which I was openly (and surprisingly) irritated. Additional themes: Mansplaining; Women in leadership; The body as a source of conscious and unconscious knowing; Ni and Fe as secret powerhouses; and the Juxtaposition of the INTJ8 and 8INTJ.

The Assignment

I have had a major job shift that I'm calling, "The Assignment". In this reflection I talk about what it means to think, feel and do as an INTJ in that assignment. Additional themes: Aims, goals and objectives; supervision; dating; and production versus performance.

Season 4

In this reflection, I consider Your Ni Dom as a project of "moods, musings and mysteries". Additional themes: Consciousness; White supremacy culture; Type community; and Legitimacy and credibility.

Causing a Paradigm Shift

Main themes: The conflict of the Social, Self- Preservation Eight; The act of exposing the social world as the matrix; Being a perspectives person and what that really means for me. **A Pre-season Bonus Episode**