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This is a podcast about personality theory and personal development. Primarily using MBTI, the host, an INTJ, talks about living out loud as an introverted intuitive-- a function that only INTJs and INFJs lead with (making up only 4% of the population). To learn more, visit: https://yournidom.wordpress.com/podcast/
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Tuesday Jun 21, 2022
Tuesday Jun 21, 2022
In this reflection I consider differentiated and contested love within the context of Christianity. The Jews were God's "chosen" people and the Gentiles, by way of Jesus as a sacrificial offering, were grafted in. While they were included, they never unseated the notion of the *chosen. The chosen remained...giving me a wondering of how this story compares to the narcissistic family structure (no disrespect intended). Additional themes: Sibling rivalry; Parental power and abuse; and Intergenerational trauma.
Tuesday Jun 21, 2022
Tuesday Jun 21, 2022
In this reflection I talk through drama that I'm calling "blended family blues". I spend most of the reflection on my two sisters: my double- sister ("Charlie") and my single-sister ("Riley"). Supporting themes: Intergenerational trauma; Domestic violence; Sibling rivalry; Different baby mamas; Sibling protection; and Trauma bonding.
Sunday Jun 19, 2022
Sunday Jun 19, 2022
In this reflection I address the gift of seeing gaps as a burden when trying to do friendship. I also explore the skill of addressing those gaps and the way having this skill becomes an added burden. Finally I consider the contest that can arise when extraverted judging functions (Te and Fe) convene in one space. Additional themes: Power and language; critical theorists, whiteness and echo chambers; and critical theorists, blackness and opportunity. Typology: Ni; Te; Fe; and Type 8.
Saturday Jun 18, 2022
Saturday Jun 18, 2022
In this reflection I consider my relationship to authenticity and harmony as separate and conjoined concepts. Supporting themes: Race and gender; Grammar (articles, adjectives and modifiers); Possession and belonging; Sibling conflict; Singing and performing; and Intimacy. Typology: Fi and Fe.
Friday Jun 17, 2022
Friday Jun 17, 2022
In this reflection I explore my INTJ8 self as a condition of the Divine. Supporting themes: Emotions and rational thinking; Deep fears and defensiveness; Socialization and the soul; Animal soul and the Godly soul; Being married to work and avoiding intimacy; Knowing the self; and Values and logic. Typology: INTJ; Type 8; Ni; Si; MBTI; and the Enneagram
Wednesday Jun 15, 2022
Wednesday Jun 15, 2022
In this reflection I explore God, soul and spirit as contested concepts. Trigger warning: Abortion is discussed. Supporting themes: Judaism; Christianity; Si spirituality versus Ni spirituality; Carl Jung; Death; Sin; Atonement; Animal soul versus Godly soul; Pro- life; Pro- choice; the start of life versus the start of the soul; Childfree versus Childless; and an INTJ God. Typology: Ni and Si.
Sunday Jun 12, 2022
Sunday Jun 12, 2022
In this reflection I attempt to explain a state of knowing (or feeling) everything and nothing all at the same time. I relate this state to being an Ni dom and call it "The Abyss". Supporting themes: Consciousness and awareness; Attention and recognition; Meaning making; Sleep; Science fiction; the Soul; Disconnect; and Intimacy. Typology: Introverted Intuition
Sunday Jun 05, 2022
Sunday Jun 05, 2022
In this reflection I walk through faith as a rational experience. Supporting themes: Sum- total decisions; Business; Non-negotiables; Spirituality as irrational; Truth; Schema formations; and Healthy living. Text: Hebrews 11:1 ( The Bible) and Social Psychology (Bordens & Horowitz). Typology: Introverted intuition and INTJness.
Sunday Jun 05, 2022
Sunday Jun 05, 2022
In this reflection I explore what it means to make life decisions that have a sum- total (equal and simultaneous) impact on different domains of our existence. Supporting themes: Expertise; Race and Gender; Instruction, Power and Leadership; Abusive Relationships; Siblings and birth order expectations; and Schemas. Text used: "Gifts Differing" (Briggs Meyers) and " Social Psychology (Bordens & Horiwitz). Typology: Introverted intuition and INTJness
Saturday Jun 04, 2022
Saturday Jun 04, 2022
In this reflection I explore what it means to thrive as an INTJ Black Woman. Supporting themes: Surviving versus thriving; Intuitive thinkers; Blending; Being vulnerable; Anti-blackness; Capitalism; Labor; The validity (or not) of stereotypes; and Four stereotypes used against Black women. Inspired by: "Navigating Relationships and Career as an INTJ Woman" by Antonia Dodge and Joel Witt (YouTube) Typology: Intuition; Thinking; Sensing; and Feeling