Your Ni Dom

Efficiency vs. Effectiveness

In this reflection I wrestle with effectiveness and efficiency as being complimentary or competing concepts. Inspired by: YouTube content generator: Love Who ("Things you HATE when you're an INTJ"). Additional themes: Curriculum; Standards; Students; Positional Authority; Goals and Outcomes; Leadership; and Expertise. Typology: Ni; Te; Fi; Ti; and Si.

Irritation

Most of this reflection is about me working through a situation in which I was openly (and surprisingly) irritated. Additional themes: Mansplaining; Women in leadership; The body as a source of conscious and unconscious knowing; Ni and Fe as secret powerhouses; and the Juxtaposition of the INTJ8 and 8INTJ.

The Assignment

I have had a major job shift that I'm calling, "The Assignment". In this reflection I talk about what it means to think, feel and do as an INTJ in that assignment. Additional themes: Aims, goals and objectives; supervision; dating; and production versus performance.

Season 4

In this reflection, I consider Your Ni Dom as a project of "moods, musings and mysteries". Additional themes: Consciousness; White supremacy culture; Type community; and Legitimacy and credibility.

Causing a Paradigm Shift

Main themes: The conflict of the Social, Self- Preservation Eight; The act of exposing the social world as the matrix; Being a perspectives person and what that really means for me. **A Pre-season Bonus Episode**

An SJ Reality

In this reflection, I contend with being an INTJ living in an SJ world. Talking points: Singlehood as a heteronormative construct; Reincarnation; Intellectual stimulation: Recreation and leisure; Small talk versus getting-to- know-you banter; and Finding my people. **A Pre-season Bonus Episode**

Growth Points of 2021

In this reflection I talk about about eight growth points for 2021, ranging from trauma to leadership.

Hypervisibility, Rapport, Perfectionism and Relationship Building

In this reflection I talk about two YouTube videos I uploaded. I also talk about an exchange I had with a YouTube content generator (LiJo). Finally, I talk about an unexpected conversation I had with my sister tonight about our relationship.

bell hooks, Love and Healing

This reflection starts with a conversation about love and the lies we tell ourselves when we want to hold onto toxic love. It ends with a conversation about self-gaslighting which is an inner rationalization process we activate that prevents us from getting our needs met. Note: The name in the title is not capitalized on purpose. Look her up to learn more. Typology reference: Ni and Fi.

Gaslighting

In this reflection, I think through six common forms of gaslighting. [Heads up: I drop an F-bomb. ] Type references: Ni, Fi, Ti and Si