Your Ni Dom

Questioning Ground Zero

In this reflection I question the caliber of my "ground zero" and what I would need in order to upgrade it. Supporting themes: Business possibilities and YourNiDom podcast; Masterminding and strategizing; Analysis paralysis and perseverating; Dating people similar to the self and conditions of compatibility; Turnaround leadership vs administrative leadership; Teaching and learning; Being creative and solo- ish. Typology: The INTJ Mastermind; Fi Drama

Labor and Belonging

In this reflection I contend with belonging when it feels like labor. Supporting themes: Group membership, Belonging friendship, family or work; Survival instincts. Typology: Enneagram instincts (social. self- Preservation and sexual); INTJ Te/Fi deciding; Type Eight.

Unaccessed

In this reflection I talk about emotions that are unaccessed or inaccessible. Supporting themes: Friendship; Emotional intelligence/ emotional wellness; Triggered parents; First born (rights and responsibilities?). IMPORTANT NOTE: This reflection abruptly ends. Go to YouTube for the closing. Typology: INTJ childhood; Eights and vulnerability.

The Truth Shall Set You Free

In this reflection I reconsider truth and authenticity. Supporting themes: My tribute to my person at her funeral; Two sides of empowerment (people and systems); Spiritual callings; Relationship conflicts associated with healing. This reflection was inspired in part by a follower who gently challenged me on being authentic. Typology: Type 8 and INTJness.

The Pareto Rule

In this reflection I consider the Pareto Principle which is a rule that says 80% of outputs is controlled by 20% of inputs. Supporting themes: Sibling dynamics; relocation; Lifestyle design/ design living; Solo living; Impostered self vs authentic self; Practicing authenticity; Therapy; Confronting transphobia; Living in a new world after someone dies. This reflection was influenced in part by The Investopedia Team ("What Is the Pareto Principle—aka the Pareto Rule or 80/20 Rule?). Typology: Sensing versus intuition

Posthumous Jumbalaya

In this reflection I process my person in a new way. Supporting themes: Spirit soul and flesh; The measurability of an afterlife; Sibling rivalry; Intimacy; Hubris; Conscious, subconscious and unconscious; Therapy; Thinking and feeling extroversion. Typology: Ni, Te, Fi.

Beginning and Ending

In this reflection I contend with beginnings and endings. Supporting themes: Pain Management and end of life; Indescribable and inaccessible grief; Unobservable data; Mental and emotional wellness; Lifestyle design; Bare minimum in singledom versus in coupledom; Ground zero structures; Employment vs entrepreneurship; Lifestyle design. Typology: Ni, Te, Fi, and Type 8

The Need to Analyze

Heart Work

In this reflection I explore relationship building through the Enneagram heart cluster (two, three and four). Supporting themes: Romantic and platonic relationships; Gender and femininity; Solo- poly and the solo community; Privilege and opportunity; Self-advocacy; Ghosting; The silent breakup. Typology: Enneagram (all nine numbers); Instincts and subtypes; MBTI-Te and Fi.

The Green, the Needle, and the Hell Yes

In this reflection I contend with building a social life more in alignment with my true self. Typology: Fi, Fe, Ni, Se, Ti, Te.