Your Ni Dom

Multiples

In this reflection I use new information to loop back and reinforce old convictions. "Multiples" was a reoccurring theme throughout. Supporting themes: The 8- hour work day; Goal setting; Intimidation: Business; Writing and messaging; Group challenges; Aggression. Typology: INTJ; ESFJ; ENFP; FeTi; TeFi; Enneagram 8 and 6.

Traveling Solo as a Change Agent

In this reflection I confront some unconscious realities about my solo orientation within a capitalistic, monogamous world. Supporting themes: Classism, racism and sexism; Social change agentry and education; Entrepreneurship; Employment; Dating and Dating Agendas; Self care, cleaning and structural maps. Typology: INTJ8

Rooftop Friends

In this reflection I talk about friendship utility and my ideal social life. Typology: INTJ8; Enneagram 2, 3 and 4.

Friends and Low Places

In this reflection I talk about being in low frequency, the challenges of getting to higher frequencies and the friends along the way. Supporting themes: Solo living; Invisible trauma; Parenting; Psychological umbilical cord; and Making remarkable friends. Note: This reflection was influenced in part By Peter McGraw from the Solo Podcast ("Making Remarkable Friends"); and Garth Brooks ("Friends in Low Spaces."). Typology: Sexual and Self-presentation subtypes.

Physiological Arousal (Triggering)

In this reflection I talk about two events that caused a triggering that a text calls "physiological arousal." Supporting themes : Nuanced and varied grief; Stress and Se coping; Intuition and tasks; Language and liberty; Executive leadership; Love restricted to words; TeFi dynamic; Power as related to race, gender, cognitive functions and maternal energy; Trauma wounds. Note 1: This reflection was influenced in part by Kenneth Bordens & Irwin Horowitz ("Social Psychology"). Also, Just Call Me Jon was referenced. Note 2: This is a type- heavy discussion (there is a lot of MBTI jargon). Note 3: I swear a lot in this reflection. Do not listen around children. Typology; Ni; Te; Fi; Se; Fe; Enneagram Social 8.

The Heritability Factor

In this reflection I process traits l inherited from my parents and consider their desirability. Supporting themes: Rational and irrational behavior; City and rural living; Pathologies and Therapy; Communication and the 7-38-55 rule; Conventional and non-conventional living: Abuse and Intergenerational trauma. This reflection was influenced in part by 1. Kenneth Bordens & Irwin Horowitz ("Social Psychology"); and 2. Alexis Kingsley (YouTube: "Introverted Intuition vs. Introverted Sensing"). Typology: Ni, Si, Te; Fi; Social-Eight

Growth and Growing

This reflection is about growth and growing. I use a diamond as a four-point framework (for the week) to show that I've grown or that I'm still growing. Related themes: The people tax of an introvert; Being loved but not liked; Relating to "My Person;" Being unlocalized: Responding to complaints; Teaching, learning and leadership; Ground Zero; Loving vs being fulfilled; Emotional maturity and emotional immaturity; Care work as an entitlement or an exchange. Typology: Enneagram INTJ8; Type 7, 8, 9 and 1

The Coin the Tax and the Pinch

Complex and Complicated

In this reflection I contend with serenity and fulfillment. as complex and complicated conditions for me as an INTJ8. Note: There was a lot of house keeping that related to the complicity and complication. However, the formal part of the reflection begins around Minute 40.

Stress

In this reflection I use MBTI and the Enneagram to show my relationship to stress (particularly as relating to unhealthy coping strategies).